Monday, 19 January 2015

Marriage

To all you unmarried young men my advice to you is : get married.
 Marriage is a great institution. You get love ( and all that it entails ), companionship and friendship. There is someone to greet you and prepare a cup of tea for you when you get home after a hard day's work, someone to talk to, someone to take care of you when you are unwell, someone to prepare good food for you, and someone with whom to share your thoughts, worries, and aspirations.
 Women are beautiful and wonderful people. Of course not all of them. So you must do a background check about the nature of your future life partner. In my opinion the nature of the young lady is more important than her looks. I know of some very beautiful women who had a terrible nature, and made their husbands' lives hell. On the other hand, I know of many plain or even ugly looking women who had a such a good and kind nature that they made their husbands' lives heaven. So check up from some people about her nature before you marry her.
 You should also check up about her academic qualifications and work experience. This is important because in these days of high prices it may be necessary to have a working and earning wife, because your own income may not suffice for two persons and for the coming child or children ( don't have more than two as you may not be able to afford it ).
 Give the young lady respect, be kind to her,and take care of her, and in return she will make your life full of joy.
 But remember a shloka in Sanskrit about the nature of many women :
 " क्षडें रुष्टा क्षडें तुष्टा रुष्टा  तुष्टा क्षडें क्षडें "
  i.e.
" A woman is angry at one moment, happy at the next, angry again the moment thereafter, and happy again the next "
 So from my own experience of marriage ( and I have been married for over 44 years ), the way to handle your lady is to become mum when she enraged ( Chandi charh jai ), and wait till she is cool again. Thereafter you will find her very sweet and full of affection for you !
 Hari Om

26 comments:

  1. Thank God good Advise

    But the liberal elites sitting in Mumbai from bollywood brigade will say to you, we don't believe in institution of marriage. We don't need just a paper to prove someone or to live with someone. We believe in freedom of speech, freedom to live, freedom of expression, freedom to do everything. This is what they give in interview and spread the word. They think their free and Americanized value will make them modern and give them face, without taking into consideration, America is a disorder state with most broken marriages and social disorder and weakening of social fabric and relationship.

    Bollywood brigade will say, Marriage Ohh we are in 21st century and to become modern we will try live in relationship for 3-4 years, we will see if we matches or judge our performances in bed, compatible till 5 years and then may consider marriage then.

    This is the life of these less than 0.5% elites of Mumbai... name bollywood people and they want to spread this liberal out of context values to society without knowing that there are certain things that do not change with time, like being born, eating, marriage and death. Only technology and people's thinking changes..

    We have very loose moral brigade in bollywood right now --- many

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  2. With due reverence, Justice Katju.

    http://prarabdha.blogspot.in/2015/01/marriage.html

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  3. Hon'ble Justice Katju Ji,

    Thanks for sharing for your suggestion to young men on marriage. But with due respect, I personally found this idea purely driven from what male wants. I don't understand why men from centuries have been judging women on their looks or nature for that matter? Why it's only a woman's responsibility to greet her husband, take care of her etc.

    We also need to understand that how the responsibility and priorities of life changes after marriage, and how to tackle through that phase. A woman as defined in Vedas - "Yatra naryastu poojyante, ramante tatra devaah" ie. "A place where women are worshipped, Gods live there", are relevant today only if men and women also continue to hold same moral and character values as they did in vedic era. I believe we strong need for a change where the perception about women playing the role of Sita has to change, because men are no more playing role of Ram.

    Regards,
    Swati

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  4. ஐயா அருமையான பதிவு

    மிக்க நன்றி

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  5. Somewhat chauvinistic. It sounds male centered. don't you see?
    Will you also advise back ground checks of men?

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  7. Nice thoughts.......but could not understand the background check thing.
    I am married for 7 months now and my marriage was arranged one. I have done a PhD in biochemistry and my husband is a researcher in University of Cape Town. We met each other in person on the day of my marriage in the temple where we got married.
    From a women's point of view I am still adjusting to this new life. Sometimes I do get uneasy with the change but, what I realise is time is the best factor which helps a relationship to settle and be grounded. I never met my husband before marriage so no chance of checking compatibility. We come from very different school of thought and background. But, what acts as a foundation stone for me is that we are married and have to stay together. This feeling of staying together makes me more loving, generous, patient, adapting and helps me to loose my ego.
    It goes the same way for my husband. So my perception is don't expect the best in life but have the confidence that you can make best of everything (my husband adores this thing about me).
    So, give life a chance, have faith in you and please don't ponder over it so much because it is just like other relationships which are equally important in life. The most surprising thing that I have discovered is, it has got nothing to do with being man and woman. It is only about change, perception, understanding and evolving.

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    1. I think by background checking he means getting hints about the nature. But it is not always the nature of woman that matters but it applies equally to man. When husband and wife each care and respect each other then the marriage is bound to be successful, be it an arranged one or otherwise. It is right that few initial years after marriage it is time for adjustments and one may feel uneasy at times.

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